Take a few minutes to watch this before our call.
So our 20 to 30 minutes together can be about you, not logistics.
You booked this call because something you heard in the masterclass felt familiar enough that you're ready to find out whether Returning to Love is the right next step.
Here's what to know before we talk, so our 20 to 30 minutes together can be about you, not logistics.
First, the thing that matters most: nothing you tell me on this call will surprise me or land as too much.
I've sat with hundreds of women experiencing this exact issue.
You don't need to make your marriage sound better or worse than it is, and you don't need to find the perfect words to explain what's happening.
Come as you are.
This is a decision-making conversation, not an information-gathering one.
By the time we talk, you've watched the masterclass, read about Returning to Love, completed your application, and read this guide.
I've read your application too.
So we can spend our time on what I can't answer from a page: you.
We'll talk about the question or two specific to your situation, I'll answer anything you still need to know, and we'll decide whether Returning to Love is the right next step.
If it is, we'll look at the cohorts with availability, choose the one that works for you, and I'll enroll you on the call.
If I don't think it's right for you, I'll tell you that too.
The call is 20 to 30 minutes. Short on purpose.
You don't need to arrive with your mind made up. You do need to arrive ready to make a decision if we both believe it's the right fit.
16 weekly group coaching calls, one hour each, women only, capped at 10.
The calls are structured and focused on the work we're doing at that point in the program. This isn't open group processing or group therapy.
The curriculum opens one phase at a time. Carrie takes you through one module a week on the live calls.
The fourth week of each month is intentionally left open so you have time to practice what you've already learned instead of constantly consuming more information.
Watch the approximately 30-minute video once, then spend 10 to 15 minutes most days on the practices.
It's built to fit a full life.
Your husband is not in the group.
As the work progresses, you'll have optional partner practices you can do together between calls.
He doesn't have to be ready for every exercise when you are.
His participation helps, but it isn't a requirement for you to begin.
Not sex therapy. Not sensate focus. Not touch exercises.
And you won't be asked to push through unwanted intimacy to make progress.
This is built for maxed-out women. The small, intentional footprint isn't a compromise.
It's the design.
Cohorts run at different days and times throughout the year.
You may already have seen an upcoming cohort on the program page that works for your schedule.
Because every group is capped at 10 women, availability can change as applications are accepted.
You don't need to choose before our call.
If we decide Returning to Love is the right fit, I'll show you what's currently available and we'll choose your cohort together.
The moment you enroll, two programs open to you.
You don't have to wait for your first group call to begin.
Ten audio modules that are yours alone.
They give you your first experience with the kind of nervous system practice we'll use inside Returning to Love before the formal group work begins.
Four tactical modules built for action.
You can work through them on your own or, if you choose, alongside your husband so the two of you can begin building safety between you right away.
If you wait for a clear window to do this work, it never comes.
All of my coaching happens live on the weekly group calls.
I'm active and coaching in real time, and you'll learn from what happens with the other women as well as from the coaching you receive directly.
Between calls, you'll have a private cohort chat where I can troubleshoot with you when something comes up in real life.
So yes, you get access to me.
You get it inside the group, because the group isn't a scaled-down version of the work.
The group is part of how the work works.
This is the question underneath almost every consult I take.
What got wired in can be changed. That's the work Returning to Love is built around.
What I can't tell you before I know you is whether this is the right work for your specific situation.
That's part of what I'm deciding too.
I've read your application before we meet. On the call, I'll ask what I still need to understand, answer the questions you have, and tell you honestly whether I believe Returning to Love can help you.
If I don't think this is the right room for what you're carrying, I'll tell you.
I'm not interested in putting you into a group simply because you're willing to enroll.
Returning to Love is $5,000 paid in full or five monthly payments of $1,097.
There's no payment required before our call.
But if we both decide Returning to Love is the right fit, come prepared to make a decision about moving forward.
If your husband is part of the financial decision, have that conversation with him before we meet so you're not leaving our call needing to start the decision over again at home.
Talk with him before our call so you're both clear on what you're considering.
Bring his questions with you and I'll answer them.
The call itself is just you and me.
No need to write anything down.
When intimacy comes up, what happens in your body first?
Before the thought, the excuse, or the conversation, what do you notice?
If nothing changed over the next year, what would that cost you?
What are you worried will happen if the two of you are still living this same pattern a year from now?
What have you already tried, and where did it leave you?
What changed? And what didn't?
What do you still need to know to make a decision?
Bring that question with you.
You don't need to have it all figured out before we talk. Come honest about what's going on, clear on what you still need to know, and ready to make a decision if we both believe this is the right fit.
Bring what's true for you. That's all this call needs.
I'll have read your application. You'll know what you still need to ask.
And we'll use our 20 to 30 minutes to decide whether Returning to Love is the right next step for you.
I'll see you on the call.