What 25+ years as a therapist, 22 years of marriage, and being a woman in midlife have taught me about intimacy, marriage, and ourselves.

Every week, I write about something I’m thinking about, noticing in my work, or learning in my own life.

Sometimes it’s about intimacy. Sometimes it’s marriage, midlife, therapy, or the things women get very good at carrying without realizing how much they’re carrying.

It’s the conversation I’d have with you if you were sitting on the other side of my couch.